What Does It Mean To Have Our Ears Tickled?

What does 2 Timothy 4:3 mean by itching ears?

When I visit church websites one of the first things I look at is their sermon index. I want to see what is being preached. Do they preach the good news of Jesus? Or do they preach something else.

I’m not trying to be the Church Policeman, but we have been called to preach the good news (Mark 16:15). It’s what the world most needs to hear, and if Christians don’t share it, who will?

You can preach the good news a thousand different ways. You can preach it from any book in the Bible and you can illustrate it using everything from Shakespeare to Star Wars. There’s no limit to how you can convey the good news of Jesus.

You don’t even have to use words.

Yet it seems that many are preaching something other than the good news of Jesus. Which brings me to passage:

Preach the word… For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires, and will turn away their ears from the truth and will turn aside to myths. (2 Timothy 4:2–4)

What does it mean to preach “the word”? What qualifies as “sound doctrine”? And what does it mean to have our ears tickled?

Preach the word

To preach, in this context, means to herald or speak on behalf of another. It’s speaking the word of God as ambassadors of God, as though God was speaking through us (2 Cor. 5:20, 1 Pet. 4:11).

To preach the word is to proclaim Jesus, the Living Word. Preach the word does not mean teach Bible literacy. Although knowing the Bible is important, the Bible means little if it doesn’t reveal the Author.

Jesus is the Living Word who gives meaning to the written word.

When we “preach the word” or “the truth” or “sound doctrine,” we are telling people about Jesus Christ – who he is, why he came, and what he reveals about the character of God.

Sound doctrine is the message that Jesus is Lord of all. There is no sin, harm, or problem that lies outside his purview.

Whatever your need, Jesus is your Supply. Whatever your hurt, Jesus is your Healing. The grace of God that we all need, comes to us through a revelation of his Son.

This is what we are called to preach.

Wanting to have their ears tickled

The natural man has no interest in the things of God. The gospel of grace that is revealed in Jesus Christ sounds like foolishness to him (1 Cor. 2:14).

The natural man doesn’t want grace. He wants principles for living and keys to success. He wants to work his way up the ladder of self-improvement.

Paul exhorted Timothy to be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus (2 Tim. 2:1), but the natural man relies on his own strength and understanding. He thinks that if he does the right things and makes the right decisions he’ll pull himself up by his bootstraps. He’ll impress God with his accomplishments and bless himself with his all-round goodness.

But that’s a myth for ticklish ears.

Our flesh has no interest in grace. Our flesh prefers teachers who tell it what it wants to hear. What does it mean to have our ears tickled? It means we’re listening to those who gratify the flesh instead of those who would point us to Jesus.

Itching ears

Since there are many kinds of flesh, there are many kinds of teachers. There are those who indulge:

  • political flesh: “We gotta get the right candidate elected”
  • vanity flesh: “You need to dress right, look good, and get a tan”
  • victim flesh: “Bad things will keep happening to you”
  • anxious flesh: “The world is going down”
  • performance flesh: “Make a name for yourself through success”
  • tribal flesh: “Our God is better than their god”
  • conspiracy flesh: “Powerful figures are pulling the strings”
  • savior flesh: “You can fix the world”
  • racist flesh: “They are not like us”
  • religious flesh: “Let me tell you how to earn divine favor”

Where are these ear-tickling teachers? They are on our social media feeds, our podcast playlists, and in the news. They are the stars of Netflix specials, bestseller lists and gossip pages. They are everywhere.

But one place these ear-ticklers ought not to be is behind the pulpit.

Preachers may talk about any subject that is relevant to their audience – social justice, welfare, racism, politics, art, language, NASCAR. But if their message ultimately does not proclaim Jesus, they are just another voice in the crowd. They have neglected their gift and missed their opportunity.

If you have found a preacher or teacher who preaches the word, in season and out, treasure them. They may well be the only person in your life who is giving you the life-giving grace of God.

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7 Comments on What Does It Mean To Have Our Ears Tickled?

  1. sallymorris1973 // June 6, 2024 at 7:08 pm // Reply

    This was delightful-enlightening,, I resonated with the “ flesh label “ list as done them all and still do to some extent but less so the more I am being exposed to the Lords true gospel of Grace- the only answer!!When the gospel of Grace isn’t preached correctly the flesh list happens,remains,within us when the gospel of Grace is preached correctly the Lords completed work at the cross for us of healing and forgiveness can do its job properly.Poor,incorrect preachingpromotes,insecurities,fears,prejudices,judgements,divisions,ignorances, self righteousness,wrong beliefs about the Lord and amongst ourselves seeing each other and the Lord as either threats in some way or as competing,comparing objects.When the gospel of Grace is preached properly we understand our “ human fallen predicament and free solution -why we need a Saviour that is above and beyond humanity ” hear that the Lord has totally forgiven and healed us all individually-equally- freely just because He loves us. We have “itchy” ears because we are insecure ,feel condemned so feel like we’ve got something to prove,achieve,protect,defend,hide in our own strength because we haven’t properly “heard” that the Lord has freely forgiven us and why and how- just because He loves us.

  2. “but the natural man relies on his own strength and understanding. He thinks that if he does the right..” I’m little bit confused about this. Where is the line between relying on ourselves/our flesh versus tempting God to to something? Both are wrong. Let’s say somebody attacks my family, should I stay aside praying and waiting for God to do something or should I defend them with my own strength (using self defense)? Yes I’m a christian and also used to train martial arts. Must admit that this issue – where’s the line is not very clear for me. Anyway good article.

    • sallymorris1973 // June 8, 2024 at 6:18 pm // Reply

      Hi Marjan, yes the line is not very clear for me either regarding this too and I believe it for us all in varying degrees, However- as I have heard over and over again…… (repeatedly thinking to myself but how can just His word help, solve, save?} over the years keep on hearing and hearing and being exposed to the gospel of Grace and praying for the Lords revelation and His grace to understand His grace,His revelation of His forgiveness and healing to us because He loves us- that is the Only answer.-it’s not easy or natural,automatic for us ,it’s hard to get our head around the truth that His word works and is the only power unto salvation , to “subdue” our flesh and it’s works tendency and all else fleshly and satanic especially when it feels like our backs are against the wall, the Lord seems silent,nothing seems to work- but it’s true.It’s taken me years to trust this but it’s true.I found through persevering with His word and prayer this site,Joseph Prince. I “found” a way that works for/feeds me properly I pray you do too. I’ve nearly thrown “the towel in” so many times- mainly because well I’m human too and it’s been more messy than enjoyable, However the moment I trusted the Lord more about the power of His word and kept on Hearing” the right way all these “other things”are miraculously effortlessly “falling off.I can’t tell you how many fearful,messy,struggling,frustrating,painful,confusing,begrudging years (as the answer seems too simple especially inenduring crisis’,dramas,traumas) it’s taken me for the penny to drop!!! and it has to be daily. Romans 1:16. Zechariah 4:1.

    • Josh Longmate // June 13, 2024 at 3:30 pm // Reply

      hi Marjan, you dont have to worry about trying not to be a “natural man” when you are in Christ. There is no line, it’s only him. Being in Christ is knowing that he is your everything in every situation. It’s resting in him that his perfect identity is manifested in you. It’s Good News and there’s no more confusion 🙂

  3. I’m thankful God led me to YOUR teachings! About 10 years ago, I did not know what I know now. We have no church in town or anywhere nearby to enjoy, that preaches Jesus all the time, but I’m so thankful that I have been taught this way at least- through your teachings online. Where would I have been without it?

    So thank you.

  4. Wow, great article! Preach Jesus!

  5. Hi Paul, I agree with you that messages that appeal to the flesh are about self effort, doing it ourselves, legalism comes from it. I used to think and most of the church still does that grace was tickling the ears, but it is not in my opinion. I have written a couple hundred New Covenant studies. Search New Covenant Bible studies Michael Edwards FaithWriters and you will find them. I found your site when searching for an explanation to 1 Thess 4:1-8 for a person that was having a hard time with it. I sent them your commentary on it that I agree with, Keep up the great work. Blessings, Michael

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