Are you Religious? Take the Test!

Religion can be defined as man’s attempt to impress God. It is an attitude that says, “I can make something of myself, I can earn God’s favor.”

Although it may lead to good works, the religious mindset is fatally opposed to grace of God.

Religion is a form of bondage that causes a man to stand when he should bow and to strut when he should kneel. Worst of all, religious makes him see himself as a co-savior. A religious man may have sincere motives, but he is an idol-worshipper.

Jesus didn’t suffer and die to make you religious. He died to give you a new life – his life. Anything that pretends to be a substitute for the thrill of knowing him – of trusting him, being with him, and walking with him – should be rejected as inferior.

To find out if you are a little bit religious, ask yourself the following questions:

Am I preoccupied with doing the right thing?

God is looking for relationship, but a religious person is more concerned with following the rules. Their motto is, “Just tell me what I must do and I will do it” (Ex. 19:8)

Whether you define the “right thing” as the Ten Commandments, the words of Jesus, or your church traditions, to live by a code of conduct is infinitely inferior to the living in union with Christ. It is eating from the wrong tree.

Adam chose independence from God. An independent spirit wants to decide for himself and thus prefers rules to relationship. But someone under grace says, I trust him from start to finish, he will lead me in the right path.

Your choice is rules or relationship. You cannot reduce relationship to a set of rules. (Try it with your marriage and see how far that gets you!)

Live by rules and you’re setting yourself up for failure, for any kind of law will stimulate sin and lead to death (Rms 7:5). Even when you do the right thing it’ll be the wrong thing because you’re operating in an independent spirit instead of walking by faith (Rms 14:23). But when you abide in Christ, you’ll find yourself doing the right thing at the right time every time.

Do I act as if God is keeping score?

A performance mentality is central to all the religions of the world: Do good, get good. Do bad, get bad. The problem with this is your best is not good enough. If God was keeping score, we would all fall short.

God doesn’t grade on the curve and he’s not obligated to pass a certain percentage of the class. In fact, he expects perfection and nothing less. So either you must deliver a perfect performance or you must put your faith in a perfect representative. (Hint: Jesus is our perfect High Priest (Heb 7:28). Trust him!)

Contrary to what religion may tell you, we are not justified by what we do but by grace alone (Rom. 3:24). His grace and our works do not mix. Indeed, they nullify each other.

Grace is God’s part; faith is our part (Eph 2:8). Faith is saying, “Thank you, Jesus!” Faith doesn’t just get you started; it’s faith from first to last.

Am I sin conscious?

Sin-consciousness is the strongest indicator of a religious mindset. Gifts and sacrifices will do nothing to clear the guilty conscience of a religious person (Heb 9:9). The only remedy is a revelation of the blood of Jesus shed for your forgiveness.

Through his one-time sacrifice for the sins of the world, Jesus has done away with sin (1 Jn 2:2, Heb 9:26). Sin was a problem, but because of Jesus it is no longer a problem.

So what is the problem?

The problem is whether you will believe in the all-sufficiency of Christ and his finished work. Religion will keep the focus on you and your unworthiness, but grace focuses on Christ and his worthiness.

Am I motivated by my Christian duty?

Religion cries, “Jesus died for you. What will you do for him?” I would do anything for Jesus, but if my motivation is a perceived debt, then I’ve missed grace.

A religious person is motivated by their love for Christ, but we are to be motivated by Christ’s love for us. “Christ’s love compels us” (2 Cor 4:14). God is not looking for us to impress him with our love; he wants to impress us with his.

Whether we call it duty or responsibility, a religious mindset fundamentally believes that we are obligated or indebted to God. The religious work so that they no longer owe God. Indeed, they want God to owe them. They want to be in a position where God will have to bless them because of what they’ve done.

This debt-consciousness is opposed to the grace of God for grace comes with no strings attached. There is no quid pro quo in the kingdom. Everything comes by the “exceeding riches of his grace” (Eph 2:7) and is received by faith.

Don’t cheapen his grace by thinking you have a duty or responsibility to pay him back. Your responsibility is to believe that he is good and true. It is not our obligation to serve the Lord, it is our royal privilege. It is not our duty, but our great delight.

Do I fear God’s anger?

Listen to a religious person and you might get the impression that God is a temperamental and abusive Father who sometimes lashes out in fits of wrath.

A religious person sees Jesus as a sort of go-between, someone who’ll stand in the gap and take the heat for us. But the truth is that God the Father, Son and Spirit are perfectly united in purpose and character. If you want to know what God the Father is like, look at the Son (Heb 1:3).

God has promised to never be angry with us or punish us (Is 54:9-10). Do you believe that God would flood the earth again as he did in the days of Noah? Of course not. He promised he wouldn’t. In Isaiah 54:9-10 God says, “this is like that – if you believe that promise, believe this one too. I will not be angry with you.”

At great personal cost God has forged an eternal and unshakeable covenant of peace, and we are the beneficiaries of this covenant. Why did he do it? Because he is love and he loves us. When you get a revelation of his love, your fear of punishment will evaporate (1 John 4:18).

“But didn’t Jesus say he might blot some of us out of the Book of Life?” Nope. God doesn’t use correction fluid.

“But what about that verse where he says he will spew some out of his mouth?” True, there is one thing that makes Jesus sick, and that’s religion. The Laodiceans had it in spades. Make sure you don’t.

Do I like doing things for God?

Contrary to what religion has told you, we are not called to work for God but to do the work of God (John 6:29). Big difference. Working for God reveals our initiative, but faith is always a response to what God has done.

We need to distinguish between dead works and good works. Dead works require no faith – if you have the resources you can do them. Good works always reveal the Father. As always, Jesus shows the way. He did nothing on his own initiative yet lived a full and fruitful life in response to the Father (John 5:19).

Do I see myself as a servant of God?

Here is the question that separates the religious from the righteous: Do you see God as your heavenly Father? A religious person will hesitate to respond, scandalized by the thought that he can speak of the Almighty in such familiar terms. Then a verse will come to mind and he will say, “I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God…”

A religious person is content to be nothing more than a servant. They see God as their employer.

There are only two kinds of people in the world: sons and orphans. Which are you? The devil’s desire is to have you so confused about your identity that you will relate to God in any way except as a son.

Perhaps you left the pig trough with a prepared speech. “Make me like one of your hired hands” (Luke 15:19). God is not interested that speech! He is not recruiting servants; He wants sons!

Like the prodigal, you may see yourself as no more than a servant, but God sees you as a dearly-loved son.

Don’t argue with your Father.


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32 Comments on Are you Religious? Take the Test!

  1. Steve Scrim // March 28, 2011 at 10:10 pm // Reply

    These powerful truths we need to hear over and over again to fully renew our minds from what the world and religion have told us. There is only room for Christ’s thoughts in our minds. This is very freeing:

    “As always, Jesus is our role model. He did nothing on His own initiative yet lived a full and fruitful life in response to the Father (Jn 5:19).” What a beautiful line.

    Leaving dead works behind is so liberating. Resting in grace is so easy. Moving with the Holy Spirit so eternally fruitful. Love the article.

  2. Sheila Mosteller // March 29, 2011 at 3:45 am // Reply

    Adding this to as many pages as I can, we must get the message out! Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. For the promise is unto you and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call. Acts 2:38-39

    If you have just read this and you have not recieved Jesus Christ as your Savior, you have now heard him calling you. Believe on Him today and ask Him to save you and you will be saved. Please for your sake and others that you may have the opportunity to share the Gospel with. This could be the last time Jesus offers salvation to you, recieve Him now! Love Sheila, forwarding this message from Jesus and His family. Your invited to have an eternal home in Heaven, please come! Free to anyone who wants to come!

  3. well written/said Paul! i totally agree with steve above; this is what it means to renew our minds!!

  4. Tom NeSmith // April 16, 2011 at 6:48 pm // Reply

    Isn’t it funny how, by rejecting religion (thinking one is rejecting God), God uses that very rejection to grab hold of you. What an exhilarating experience!

    And then you tell somebody about it and they think you’re religious!

  5. John Meyer // April 21, 2011 at 2:02 am // Reply

    Thanks, I needed this.

  6. So clearly put – many many thanks

  7. I don’t believe there is a “last time Jesus offers salvation” it’s been on the table for over 2000 years! There may be a last time to receive Him, but that’s at one’s last breath!! Just say the Name, JESUS!!!

  8. Let’s not forget that one of the ways Paul introduced himself in his letters was as a “servant / bondservant / bondslave ” of Jesus Christ. A bondservant was one who was free to go but who chose to stay and serve his master for life.
    Let’s also remember that other people’s love-lives are nobody’s business but their own. Who has the right to tell them not to do things for the One they love? Should I instruct you not to do things for your wife?
    When you start putting such limits on people the pendulum has swung too far and it starts looking just like the side you’re trying to get away from. Religious legalism.

    • Hi Justin, thanks for your comment. 2 responses:

      (1) It is never my intention to put limits on those whom Christ calls Free. However, I do challenge limits people put on themselves. It’s easy to find Christians who’ll tell you what they’re doing for God, but Jesus never said He was doing anything for God. He did the work of God. Don’t you find this just a little bit intriguing? Working for God is a lot like bringing a sacrifice He hasn’t asked for.

      (2) When a religious person says they’re “a servant of God” what they mean is “I serve God, I work for God.” How utterly ridiculous and pompous to think that God needs servants or that He’s impressed when we help Him out! When Paul said he was a bondservant of Christ he had something far better in mind. He meant that he served in the manner in which Christ served. There are those who serve in the manner of the world through blood, sweat and tears and in the hope of a little pay-back. And there are those who serve in the manner of Christ – out of love. Paul was the second kind of servant. So are we. We serve, we love, we heal, we minister, just as Christ did. “For we do not preach ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord, and ourselves your bondservants for Jesus’ sake” (2 Cor 4:5). Christ is our role model, not our employer.

  9. Thank you so very much. This is very revealing and liberating. It is grace from start to finish. That is the good news of Christ’s coming. Comment by Pastor Mary. 11/5/2011.

  10. I think it was a old friend who said [What we do is substitute knowing about god for knowing him] and [ Its one thing to know the book,but to know the author,is to know what he means.]

  11. samson sundeep // March 5, 2013 at 7:24 pm // Reply

    absolutely wholesome stuff. many many blocks cleared from my mind. as some one complimented a man of God ,i take liberty in calling you as well a GRACIST. thank you ellis for the above article.>

  12. Liberating stuff.

    Have been on the Grace journey for a few months & God has never been so real to me as is the case now.

    Thanks for the posts Paul.

  13. My pastor has taught such wrong theology for so manh years. I spent a decade of my Christian walk believing that the Holy Spirit convicted me, a believer of sin, and you had to perform a certain way, people he called warriors because it was the pastor who was judging their walk and they werent trying to please the Lord but the pastor. I got caught up in this for years. I am so gratefuk the Holy Spirit revealed the trutth to me.
    Thirty years later he is still teaching that nonsense. How can I share the truth with him. Please help

    • Hey brother, Just walk in the freedom that Christ has given to us, walk as a Son and no longer a servant. This is the only way I found to show others who our father is like! Living in us! They will see the love that the father have given unto us!

  14. Michael Jenkins // December 17, 2013 at 3:38 pm // Reply

    Carmen, remember that knowing the truth will make you fee. I have as well has experienced old pastors preaching old covenant teaching and thinking that God is keeping score of your sin. My advice is to walk away from teaching like that or do not receive it. It is really hard to sit still in a congregation if a pastor is demanding perfect obedience. Trust in the sufficiency of Christ!

    Now that you know the truth, spread it! It is your opportunity to tell people about the goodness of Jesus and how his obedience made us the righteous of God.

    Grace and peace!

  15. Great post Paul…. Keep ’em coming . Grace and Peace in multiplication and addition to you from God and Our Lord Jesus.

  16. That is some of the absolute worst teaching I have ever heard. I do not know how you can objectively read the Bible and walk away with such conclusions? What did Jesus say to each of the seven churches? “I know your works.” And he called five of them to repentance and to begin doing certain things lest He move against them. I can tell you personally from my own life that tolerating sin is spiritually lethal. I can also tell you that the closer I have grown to Jesus over the years, the more pain I have felt when I did sin. As James says, “faith without works is dead.”

    • I’m not sure how you could possibly interpret the post as an endorsement of sin! Those who love Jesus don’t want to sin, hate sin, and feel terrible if they do sin – this is a characteristic of the new life that is ours in Christ.

      • By the grace of God and my Lord Jesus,
        I found this site. I can’t get enough of this grace that is Jesus. Could you please post these articles in Spanish? I want all my family and friends to read this.

      • Hi Lidia, Unfortunately I don’t speak Spanish. However, you can get Google to translate this entire site into Spanish using the link found on this page. You can also get my ebook “Who’s Your Daddy?” in Spanish here.

  17. Paul, thank you for the ebook and the teaching. I downloaded it and sent it to friends and family in Cuba. Be encouraged to continue teaching the pure word of God, we need it.

  18. This by far is the hardest teaching you have Paul. If I don’t do the dishes or if I were hired somewhere and didn’t work I would be fired. Yes what you write makes it easier though.

  19. Roshan J Easo // June 16, 2017 at 9:35 am // Reply

    I know this might not be an appropriate comment, but I’m praying about it. I’ve been blessed by people who have been religious. It is extremely refreshing to see lives transformed by grace in those ways. I’ve been preserved from destruction by those who would usually have tried to destroy but God’s grace was there. Is it a bad idea to go to bible college or secular university? Honestly I’m thankful for grace. Maybe God is changing my plans.

  20. Paul called himself a bondservant of God.

  21. Ambangira Edson // April 25, 2020 at 1:56 am // Reply

    Wow.Thank you Dr Paul,having grown up in a Christian Home, I was always trying my best to be at good terms with God; did everything not to be at bad terms with God; related to him as a master not as a father and friend. All my efforts were filthy rags as I tried to earn his favor, love and blessings.. until whilst at college that I encountered a God that was “Unknown” to me- He was nolonger veiled but beheld Him as He is. Light was experienced. And over the years, it’s been a wonderful relationship. Thank You Dr Paul for not fainting in unveiling this present Truth to people. This is the freedom that God called us into:

    Thank You!

  22. I think some end up this way because of the holiness preaching of others. It’s not hard to fall into that trap when you hear, “Don’t sin!” “Repent or burn!” “If you don’t keep all the commands, you will go to hell!” Such things do not help matters. It’s hard not for some to feel like a mere servant (if that) in the sight of God when a person is constantly hearing “no matter what, dude you’re screwed!” messages.

    For that matter, there is a condition called Scrupulosity or Religious OCD that also can cause those who suffer from it to be religious but like on steroids.

    In the first case I don’t think it is the person’s fault that they were deceived. It’s not like that person knew. In the second case, it is also not the person’s fault because it is a medical/mental/brain condition of which they have no control over.

  23. Gosh! This wrecked me this morning! So Good! Thank you, and God bless you, Paul!!

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